HOW DO YOU KNOW ITS OVER!

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“How do you know when it's over?"
"Maybe when you feel more in love with your memories than with the person standing in front of you.”
― Gunnar Ardelius,  from the book  I Need You More Than I Love You and I Love You to Bits

I cam across the above quote and thought it was beautiful. It led me think how would you really know it is over?

If you are constantly thinking about how good used to be, maybe it time to rethink about your relationship.
If you are always thinking about someone else even when you are with them, then that is a sign too.
If you are fighting over and over, about the same things with no end in sight, maybe that is an indication too.
If you feel no spark or joy at the thought of being with them, chances are it is over.
And finally if the thought of life without them in it, seems as a welcoe relief--then it is definitely over.
But don't make a final conclusion yet. Move away. Give it space. And time.
Sometimes that is all a relationship needs.
And sometimes, that brings closure.
Be loved, stay happy, will be back soon again!
Love

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