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HOW TO DEAL WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE!

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Now, when you say negative people, I am presuming you are referring to people who drain you out, who put you down and who make you feel lousy about yourself. After they leave you feel awful. Am I right? We ALL have such people in their lives. Sometimes it is not possible to ignore them as you are living with them! Here are five things you can do: 1. Examine the source: Mostly negativity comes from jealousy. I have someone in my life (whom I cannot avoid) who leaves me feeling drained. When I thought about the things that this person said, I realised it was stemming from deep jealousy. At that moment, I got good insight into  their motive--why they were like that. It didn't stop them from making the same barbs and negative comments, but it sure helped me understand where the rot was stemming from. 2. It's not about you , its about them: Often the only way they can make themselves feel better is if they put you down. The most successful people are the ones who